Dwyane Wade is many things. Most notably, he was a three-time NBA champion with the Miami Heat. “Flash” was named NBA Finals MVP in 2006 with help from Shaquille O’Neal, then nabbed back-to-back titles alongside LeBron James and Chris Bosh. The 13-time All-Star was named All-NBA eight times during his Hall-of-Fame career and won Olympic gold as the leading scorer on the “Redeem Team.”
For obvious reasons, Wade’s legacy as an iconic NBA figure won’t be forgotten. But since taking his last jump shot, Wade has taken on an even more important role as a husband and father.
During his conversation on Showtime’s All the Smoke podcast, Wade talked about his role as a father with former NBA players and co-hosts Matt Barnes and Stephen Jackson. Most notably, Wade opened up about raising his daughter Zaya, and the challenges of raising a child who uses she/her pronouns and identifies in the LGBTQ+ community.
Zaya Wade and Dwyane Wade
“I had to look myself in the mirror when [Zion] at the time was 3 years old. And me and my wife are having conversations about [noticing] he wasn’t on the boy vibe that Zaire was on,” Wade said on the podcast. “I had to look myself in the mirror and say, ‘What if your son come home and tell you he’s gay? What are you going to do? How are you going to be? How are you going to act?'”
Wade credits his wife Gabrielle Union for giving him “different lenses to look through.” The former NBA star talked about his growth as a father and becoming a vocal supporter for his family and the LGBTQ+ community as a whole.
“I watched my son, from day one, become into who she now eventually come into.”
Dwyane Wade: “All the Smoke” Podcast
An Instagram photo of the family on Thanksgiving this year brought a wave of hate on social media because Zion had painted nails and wore a crop top in the photo.
“I’ve seen some post-thanksgiving hate on social about my family photo,” Wade said in a tweet at the time. “Stupidity is a part of this world we live in — so I get it. But here’s the thing — I’ve been chosen to lead my family not y’all. So we will continue to be us and support each other with pride, love & a smile!”
“You know, whatever [my kids] want to do, it’s my job to support you and make sure that you have all the tools you need to be as happy as you can be in this world while you’re doing it. While you’re growing into the person you are, that you’re going to grow into. So, they’re not different, they’re normal. The ones that don’t understand it are the ones that are different.”
— Dwyane Wade, via All the Smoke podcast
Wade fathered two children in a previous relationship with high school girlfriend Siohvaughn Funches, but he was awarded custody of the boys in 2011 after a long court battle. Wade also is the father of a third boy, Xavier, who he had with Aja Metoyer in 2013 while split from actress Gabrielle Union. The couple then married in 2013 and share a daughter, Kaavia James, who was born via a surrogate.
The family also cares for Wade’s nephew, Dahveon Morris.
According to Wade’s personal website, he was appointed to President Barack Obama’s Fatherhood & Mentoring Initiative in 2011. The national parenting program was “geared towards encouraging fathers to become more involved in the lives of their children.
Basketball accolades are one thing. Being an incredible father, family man and role model is completely different, and truthfully, Wade seems to be succeeding even more in his new role than he did with a ball in his hands.